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Is the portrayed difference between the sex drives of men and women based on anything biological, or is it entirely to do with the gender roles set by most societies?
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If female sex drives aren't less than men, why can women have sex whenever they want and men can't? If men and women truly had an equal sex drive, it would be just as easy for a man to have sex than it is for a woman. Obviously the demand for sex with women is higher than the demand for sex with men.
Men want sex! As soon as we hit puberty, unlike women, we basically want to have sex with any pretty girl we come across, with as many women as possible! It's biology. It has nothing to do with society. You can burn everything to the ground, and leave a small group of people alive on a desert island, and history will repeat itself. Men will have a higher sex drive than women and they want sex with any hot woman they lay their gaze at. This has never been proven otherwise in the entire history of humankind.
If female sex drives aren't less potent than mens, why can women have sex whenever they want and men can't? If men and women truly had an equal sex drive, it would be just as easy for a man to have sex than it is for a woman. Stopping slut shaming is not going to allow men to get sex whenever they want, or make women less picky with their selection, contrary to what cultural marxists and feminists think. Most men do not get replies off dating websites, as women rate 80% of men below average. Stopping slut shaming is not going to change what women find attractive. Your idea that stopping slut shaming will allow any man to get sex is wrong.
Have you ever heard women complain, that men are only interested in one thing (sex)? This means that women are saying that they DON'T want sex as much as men do. In a social environment, men always want sex and women always don't. It has nothing to do with society slut shaming women. It is genetics, biology.
All the men want sex with their female friends and all the women don't want sex with their male friends. It has nothing to do with shaming women, just that women are not interested. Am I expected to believe that if slut shaming ends, that women will start having sex with their friends? No. Women just aren't interested regardless.
Women get hundreds and thousands of prepositions for sex, and they turn them most or all of them down because they are less interested in sex than men. They don't turn them down out of fear of being shamed. They turn them down because they're NOT INTERESTED! Men would not turn most of hundreds or thousands of offers down.
It's not that women are AS interested in sex as men but they don't act upon it because they're discouraged. Women aren't interested regardless. If it was truly due to slut shaming, women would be AS interested as men in having as much sex with as many people as men and be repressing their urges, but no, women are NOT as interested as men and be repressing their urges, instead they aren't interested as men regardless.
Hard-wired into the male brain, after millions of years of evolution, is a desire for sex in response to the sight of a good-looking young woman. In contrast, both male and female erotica cause sexual arousal in women, whether heterosexual or lesbian.
23% of gays have had over 1000 sex partners but only 2% of lesbians have had over 100 sex partners.
http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2014/09/23/the-scientific-consensus-discredits-feminism/
Psychologists have uncovered dozens of ways men and women differ in affect, behavior, and cognition. Social role theorists assume that men’s and women’s psychological differences solely result from sex role socialization processes and sociopolitical power differentials, and, as a consequence, social role theorists further assume psychological sex differences will be smaller in cultures with more egalitarian sex role socialization and greater sociopolitical gender equity.
In this chapter, evidence is marshaled across 21 data sources that directly challenge this foundational assumption of social role theory. Empirically, sex differences in most psychological traits—in personality, sexuality, attitudes, emotions, behaviors, and cognitive abilities—are conspicuously larger in cultures with more egalitarian sex role socialization and greater sociopolitical gender equity. In poverty stricken countries with no education, women engage in STEM subjects, to get rich. In affluent countries where men and women have equal footing, women shun STEM subjects. In countries where marriage options are restricted, women choose nice guys and people value compassion and providing for each other. In countries where women have unlimited mating choice, they choose jerks and men that deviate from what men want off women. Think about the love of your grandparents, now think of love today. Love has lessened.
Even sex differences in many physical traits such as height, obesity, and blood pressure are larger in cultures with more egalitarian sex role socialization and greater sociopolitical gender equity. Three alternative evolutionary perspectives on psychological sex differences—obligate sex differences, facultatively mediated sex differences, and emergently-moderated sex differences—appear to better explain the universal and culturally-variable sex differences reliably observed across human cultures.
http://link.springer.com/chapter/10.1007/978-3-319-09384-0_11
If you need any proof that the male sex drive is higher than women's take a look at this image.
When women are called attractive or sexy on Facebook, they get upset that they're a peace of meat being objectified, but when men are called attractive or sexy on Facebook, they lap it up and are fully for it.