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Compesh is a question and answer (and debate) website, so before you make a debate, you better learn what an assertion is. I suppose you already know what a question is, and that you've typed it in the box. ;)
An assertion, is basically a statement you can make, that is either true or false.
Richer people have better health.
The question for that would be, Do richer people have better health?
And don't forget to make your assertion, match your question.
There's four types of people that I really love to talk to and I get along with them really well so there's high chemistry with these people. Everyone else is secondary.
People with the applicable triad of intelligence
Read this before continuing.https://compesh.com/question/85/comment/70
I get along really well who have hard skills, soft skills and creative arts skills, as I have that too, so we will have a lot in common, even if we disagree on politics, sociology (how we see the world), morals, conduct (how we choose to conduct ourselves in any particular situation), subculture (type of social circles we belong to), taste (in music, books, videos), and ambition.
I have an excellent friend I talk to right now who is like that.
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https://compesh.com/question/87/comment/72
Dark Triad people
What is the dark triad? It's people who have traits narcicissm, sociopathy and machiavellianism traits. However that does not mean that they are any of these things, it's very possible that they are not any of these things, just that they have traits of those three things.Machiavellanism means "the ends justifies the means" meaning you will do something bad if the result is good, or do harm a small amount of people to benefit a large amount of people. It originates from a philosopher and writer called Niccolò Machiavelli who wrote fiction and non-fiction books, and his books are classics which have influenced governments worldwide.
People who are dark triad tend to be VERY intelligent, VERY popular, VERY funny, VERY good at flirting, and VERY creative and VERY successful. They also tend to have conservative, red pill and anti-feminist opinions. Their opinions go against the grain of education, media and politicians so they are antithetical, and they are politically incorrect.
You know that someone is dark triad when they run their own business that involves them making money from their own intellectual property from their own brain instead of manual labour (chef, bricklayer, factory picker) jobs or moronic jobs (sales, administration, cleaner, social worker, teacher). I also find it funny how dark triad people like Lil Wayne, Roosh V, Tyler The Creator, Lewis Spears, Milo Yiannopoulos, Tristan Barker, end their sentences with "man" for emphasis and to address the person they're conversing with to be pally. Also they use deadpan humour, which is saying something funny while keeping a normal facial expression and normal tone of voice so they sound deadly serious while telling a joke as if they are counting to 100.
Sometimes videos convey what text can't, so here's some vloggers I like watching. Why do you think I am I subscribed to these people?
Notice how Lil Wayne knocks his cup over on purpose!
Roosh's deadpan humour is below
People who are extroverted, bubbly, chirpy, whose presence fills the whole room
What type of person do they hire to work as a pre-school tv presenter like Nick Jr, Cbeebies or Disney Junior. What type of person do they hire to work in sales? You've now imagined that type of person.I'm a very extroverted person too, but whereas my extroversion energy is being a "social catalyst" (a catalyst is something a car has to make the fuel burn faster), their extroversion is the fuel. So I'm not interesting as a seperate entity I have to react with people in a context sensitive way depending on the profile, ideas and signals of the person, and they are interesting as a seperate entity by themselves. What a perfect combination!
I met a girl like that and she was perfect she was so pretty and had the perfect personality, and OMG she was MORE intelligent than me. I always felt intimidated by her when I was in her presence even though I fell in love with her, and she had the unique ability to know what I was thinking by looking at me, and constantly par me by telling the people around me out loud what I was thinking. Nobody else knew what I was thinking. My grades at the end of the course was two distinctions and a merit, hers was three distinctions, so she scored higher than me.
In a relationship between people, there are three types of value that is exchanged by two parties. Sometimes more than one type of value can be exchanged.
Me and the pretty girl I loved I wanted SOOOO much, we had all 3 of the types of value in a relationship. One time I brought a filofax (ring binder) from Poundland (everything there costs £1) and tried to close the metal inside so I could secure the A4 papers I put inside. It never shut. The chemistry was so high between us that me and her spent THIRTY MINUTES trying to close the metal rings and it would never close, and we were laughing and flirting the whole time. Everyone in the class was staring at us and eavesdropping.
Everything I am, she is more. More intelligent, more attractive, more manipulative, more popular, but on the flip side, maybe she woud think that I'm more than her, as she doesn't create the hard skills, soft skills and creative arts that I do as she's not a creative person, so when you think about it properly, I'm more intelligent than her in some aspects, and she's more intelligent than me in other aspects. As you can imagine, we one-upped (in Britain we say parred) each other all the bloody time!
Sometimes videos convey what text can't, so here's some examples of such people.
Hippies
What subculture do I belong to and have my personality fit into? Have a guess.............................................
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Hippies.
(Also known as bohemians but hippie and bohemian is the same thing, just that bohemains carbon copied hippies and tried to pass it off as original so the real term is hippie.)
In case you don't know, you don't need to meet EVERY trait (or stereotype) to act like a subculture, but you just need over a certain amount. And it just so happens that I have a cluster of traits in my personality that is associated with hippie culture. I didn't choose the hippie life, the hippie life chose me. I know this because I was looking up hippie lingo or hippie speak in Google before writing this answer, and guess what? Most of the slang words I use all the time in my day to day life, actually stem from hippie culture, even though I didn't know that it was hippie speak. What a coincidence!!! I'm really shocked.
Every subculture has its own lingo. Incels use the words stacey, chad and roastie. Nerds use the words noob, noscopes and filler. Hipsters use "you probably haven't heard of it", "come again" and "jitterbug". I've used this website of hippie lingo to find that MOST of the slang words I use stem from hippie culture without me knowing that they are hippie words. I'll list them below.
So what is a hippie? I'll try to explain, but it's hard to explain because the hippie subculture (or movement) started before I was born, and there was no such thing as internet in those days so the amount of accurate information with authority about hippies is very limited.
A hippie, in short, is a person who believes in peace, free love, equality, being altrusic and making the world a better place - but in short, they are "free love" people. It's hard for me to find stereotypes of hippies on Google because the search results given tend to be low quality websites trying to upsell me to part with my money to pay for books, give them youtube advertising revenue or donate to them on patreon - things that have nothing to do with the "article" at hand. So here goes.
Sometimes when describing a type of person, video conveys what text can't, so here is a youtube of a video who is a self declared bohemian (remember bohemian and hippie are the same thing).
(JJ from JJVlogz and JJTalkz is a vegan feminist. Why am I not surprised?)
Below are stereotypes of hippies, as far as my understanding.
I'm sure there's more stereotypes that I can list even if they don't apply to me, but I've not yet done enough research online to know.
People with anxiety
This is the part of the show where it gets controversial or politically incorrect. Everyone knows that guys find girls with anxiety adorable.Girls with anxiety always get offended or TRIGGERED by this, as they perceive it to be some sort of microaggression. I've got my own opinions on microaggressions, but that would be changing the subject. I was asking people (male and female) with anxiety online on a mental health forum why they would be offended by someone finding their anxiety personality trait attractive, and I also asked them how they would feel if someone decided to approach them solely because they have anxiety behaviours. They either said that it was fetishising because they were portraying anxiety as a good thing as if it's good for a person to have because it adds to their character and gives them kind behaviours, glossing over all the negative (and severely life hindering) aspects of their mental disability; or they were saying that to select someone on the basis of a mental disability or a label (to label someone in western culture, means to apply a "restricting label" to them) is bad and will result in them not being treated good. Yes I agree that it's not good to be labelled. Nobody wants their mental disability to be used to invalidate someone's opinion, testimony, needs or autonomy, as if somehow people with a label are less worthy of being treated with the same agency as other people. When they put it like that, I can see where they are coming from, so I suppose that they have been exploited by lots of deviant people, haters, vultures and bullies, who like to prey on the weak and exploit their mental disability. I can see their point and they are making sense, so I could not help but think that people with anxiety are miscommunicating when they are open with their mental disability. I then asked them how they would feel if someone approached them to be their friend SOLELY because they have anxiety behaviours, but they treat the person good and kindly. They ALL then said that they would not see any problem with that and they would be happy about that.
So that clears up that matter. Either they were miscommunicating or I was misunderstanding, or both.
So anyway, why do I (or people like me), be attracted to people with anxiety, and would like a girlfriend who has anxiety? I'll explain I'll break it down, but this is a psychology not a sociology question, so what I say here, I'm can't speak for anyone else about this question, I can only speak for me as this question is addressed to be personally as an individual, not as people in general. I suppose that people with anxiety think that they walk around with a sticky note on their forehead that says "kick me" on it, but it's not that simple. The kick me signal can also be a sign that says "I need social services" but on the flip side be a sign that says "I'm not deviant like those unemotional cold hearted people, I'm a good and kind person" so a person can help them and care for them, so it's not always a bad thing that the signal is there.
Okay then so I'll start.
As I said earlier in this answer, there are 3 types of value that can be exchanged by two parties in a relationship. If someone has anxiety behaviours, then they will seek relationships where they are feeding off someone else, but they won't have one way relationships. They will feed off one the person they are friends with or dating, and the other person will be feeding off them. However they do not need both be getting the same needs off each other. They just need a relationship where they both serve each other's needs. I know what you're thinking. Don't all people in relationships get their needs met, otherwise they wouldn't be in that relationship? That's a good question. Well what makes the behaviour of people with anxiety in relationships (this includes friendships), is that anxiety is associated with a cluster of behaviours that are commonly found with people with anxiety. It is not just the anxious feeling (however you describe that), that makes someone with anxiety an anxiety person.
Anxiety is associated with certain behaviours but I'll list some of them. Dependancy, constant need for instant feedback with an inability to cope with delayed feedback (or gratification), being their worst critic (low self esteem), and trust issues (remember the kick me sticky note they have on their forehead). If you are trying to befriend someone with anxiety, they will be more skeptical of you more than a normal everyday person. If you are friends with someone with anxiety and have been for a long time, they will still be skeptical of you more than a normal everyday person. I'm not saying that their thoughts and feelings are without merit. Maybe their thoughts become actions which becomes thoughts which become actions in a vicious cycle. How would you know?
When you are a ghost in the midst passing through everything around you without being able to exert your influence on another person because you don't know how, people won't allow you, or the culture is degenerate, that is anxiety inducing. So what happens if someone else comes along who is also the same as they are, or has the same base needs (not needs, base needs) that they have? A dependancy relationship is created. Notice how I did not mention reciprocal relationships in my bullet points, as all relationships are reciprocal but in different ways. How else do women get to date a man and woman at the same time and live in the same house?
I could be more specific in this part of my answer here and talk about me and my general disposition or some relationships I've been in, but I think that would subtract from my point that I'm trying to make.
In fact I have an example from my novel of two people having a dependancy relationship, as two people went from never speaking to each other only hearing things about them through the grapevine, to being in a loving and emotionally charged relationship.
Sometimes video conveys what text can't, so here's a youtube video of a vlogger. Why do you think that I'm subscribed to these people?
So I suppose that should answer your question.
Yeah I like watching vloggers on youtube, the vlogging genre. People keep asking me to be a vlogger like the videos up just me talking in front of a camcorder (right now I'm just a blogger http://compesh.com/group/2) seeing as I can talk about politcal views, sociology views, philosophy views and life events. But I'm more of a writer behind the camera as a systems person than an in front of the camera screen person as I'm not really an artsy person I'm more of a systems person. I'm going to be making new podcast episodes this year and I have the guests ready to take part. So watch out for that one, there I will have two different podcast series online.
Which category of people do I fall under? That's a good question you know! I could be one of those or something else, but I'll leave it up to you to decide.