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Why are some people who say they are antisocial taken at their word, while others who say they are antisocial are often encouraged to be social?

I have seen this happen time after time.

Person A says: "I'm antisocial and prefer to be left alone if you don't mind."

People respond by saying, "Oh no you're not!" They then pick the person up and carry them off to a party.

Person B says: "I'm antisocial and prefer to be left alone if you don't mind."

People respond with "Okay. Whatever. Bye." And leave.

What explains the difference? Why do we take some at their word and not others?
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tynamite
tynamite's avatar Person A is likeable, patient, and makes an effort to understand the world they live in.
Person B is schizoid, dismissive of others, and feels sorry for themselves.
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