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I'm still stuck and stupid, how can I get over her?

This is a follow up question to, I'm in desperate need of help: how can I get over her or win her over?

To give an update, I didn't talk to her for 3 weeks. A few weeks ago, I saw her and we talked for a minute. I was thinking that I had gotten over her. I asked her for coffee the next morning, with me thinking as friends, and she said yes. It went well. The next day, she texted me saying how it was nice seeing me, catching up, and thank you for taking her out for coffee.

Well Quora, we've been texting since and seen each other a few times. It is like nothing has changed. I'm still stuck. I've taken some of Quora's advice. I've flirted with other girls, hooked up with two more, and I just don't feel anything for them. I just think of her. She's who I've wanted to be with for the past 8 months. She's the sweetest, most down to earth girl, and she has a smile that makes me smile. It fucking hurts.

This summer, I'll be interning locally. She'll be gone for a month, but then will be back. Most of my good friends are gone for summer, so aside from burying myself in work, it is going to be difficult being social. I'm going to try to travel to see friends over weekends, but that will only take up 4-5 weekends tops.

With the background of the previous question and this update, what would you guys suggest at this point? I honestly don't think that I have it in me to stop talking to her. It is fucking insane, she makes me feel like no one else can.
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tynamite
tynamite's avatar Answer is simple. Don't be friends. Find the strength. Cut your ties. Say no more.
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