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How much do you agree with this cartoon about gender bias?

double standards meme

I have seen a lot of people sharing this on fb, so thought of asking Quorans view.
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tynamite
tynamite's avatar Women are brave if they hit men? Sometimes they are, as these two videos show 2 women harassing a man verbally and physically because they know he won't attack them back.

http://sourcefed.com/crazy-woman-hits-man-gets-hit-back/

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tynamite
tynamite's avatar Women are brave if they hit men? Sometimes they are, as these two videos show 2 women harassing a man verbally and physically because they know he won't attack them back.

http://sourcefed.com/crazy-woman-hits-man-gets-hit-back/



When a woman hits a man it's not an invitation for a fight. It's just a hit. Would you fight a woman back if she gives you one slap or punch? I know I wouldn't. Why shouldn't a man be called a brutal evil pervert for fighting someone who can't defend themselves? It's just spineless cowardice. If you can give a good reason for why a woman deserves to be beaten up, then fair play, but otherwise end the hostility against women as that prejudice that you can't hit women doesn't do anyone an injustice. There's a reason why boys never fought girls at school when I was around.

It won't be seen as perverted for a man to enter a woman's bathroom when he was in a pub. My brother entered the girl's bathroom when he was drunk, and no women thought he was perverted at all. They just thought he was drunk. When I was in school a guy walked into a girl's toilet recording it on his phone and no girls complained or reported him. They walked out like nothing happened. Women don't get naked in full view in toilets, they go into locked cubicles, so there would be nothing sexy for me to look at if I walked into one. The idea that there's something appealing for perverts to look at in women's toilets is ridiculous.

For one, women do NOT stare at mens crotches. It is only men who reduce women to a piece of meat as if she's an airhead. When you stare at a woman's breasts mid-conversation, it shows that what she says, thinks and feels doesn't matter to you, and that you are only after one thing. It's not the staring that's a problem per se but what it signifies. Any man who has spent enough time in a female environment will know that the number 1 thing women say about men is "All boys are the same." When women flirt they play with their hair, start fluttering their eyes, start giving the look, or maybe coyly giggling, touching you out of the blue, or call you cute. All these signs are non-sexual. Also when women flirt with men, it doesn't signify that she wants sex with the man.

It's sexual harassment if a man suddenly kisses a random woman, because that's what suddenly means, unsolicited. But if you're in a relationship she can decline your advances, and so can you, you don't have to kiss your girlfriend if you don't want to, unless you can't help yourself. I've seen men suddenly kiss women before, one grabbed the girl's face and pulled her towards him. And women don't suddenly kiss men. If you spent any time around girls like I have, you'll know that a lot of talking, flirting, bonding, and trust building happens before women kiss men. Women don't use sex appeal to attract a man. They say hello and conversate, not "hi you're cute can I kiss you and talk afterwards".

If a woman's doing work and she asks a man for help, yes she might talk in a girly voice, smile and use puppy dog eyes, but you don't have to help her. Nobody is going to call you sexist if you don't help her. I've refused to help girls many times because I didn't know their names, and I even refused to call my friend's boyfriend on her behalf because I didn't trust that she ran out of credit (which I regret). You can also ask women for help too as I got a girl to make wires for me in Comptuing class as I couldn't do it. One time my Health & Social Care class was recording a film project at Severn Trent Water and my friend who's a girl asked me to hold the tripod she was holding. I knew she was exploiting sexist chivalry because the man is supposed to help the woman with strength related stuff, but I still said yes to it. You don't have to open doors for women and pull out chairs for them and other chivalry stuff like helping her carry tripods and shopping bags. All those archaic stereotypes are outdated, and most feminists don't agree with them. Just stop being pussywhipped to pretty faces, say no to women, and move on with your life.

About this split the bill controversy, if you ask a woman out for a date, you pay, if she asks you for a date, she pays. Remember you're taking her on a date, it's your function, she never chose what restaurant or place to go to. Nowadays women do split the bill when it comes to dates.

Sexual harassment, the one square that I do agree with. If a man gets raped or groped, he is expected to like it. Rape and sexual harassment doesn't affect men as it does women. Let me explain. Women get disgusted when they get messages on dating sites prepositioning them for sex calling it disrespectful, but if a woman did the same to a man, he wouldn't mind. When women get catcalled on the street, women find this offensive and consider it harassment, but if it happened to a man, he wouldn't mind. In fact men tell women that the attention is a good thing. Some women don't like having strangers chatting them up or trying to get their number, but if it happened to a man he wouldn't mind. I know a man who was groped by a woman and when he reported it to the staff, they all laughed because he was a man. My brother went to a party where a fat girl was raping a guy, and people got out their phones and started recording it. That's the culture we live in.

There's only two male celebrities I know to experience rape or sexual harassment, being Lil Wayne and Richard Dawkins. Lil Wayne said in a documentary that he loved being raped and that he'd never press charges, and Richard Dawkins controversially said that him being molested wasn't child abuse. Female celebrities don't really admit to that sort of stuff, so I'll just have to go buy the most media prominent ones that I know of. A presenter of a documentary reported a man who felt up her leg on tv, and TheOnlyLuca made a video upset when a woman told her she deserved to get raped or showing cleavage.are at her,

I know one girl who looks down when boys stare at her on the street, one girl who cannot leave the house without being smiled at or having lewd comments who is call with it, and one who likes the attention who talks back to harassers smiling and pole dances in the park.

I'm going to quote Chelsea here from If a sexist man could experience what it was like to be a woman, what is the most important lesson that they would learn?

I think the biggest misconception sexist men have is that women somehow like all their "attention" and that women, by virtue of lowered expectations of intelligence and higher passivity, have it easy.

Being reduced to you physical appearance is not fun, or easy. For a man who cat-calls women on the street to be in her role - having to rethink outfits, cross the sidewalk, feel self-conscious about eating and sweating - would be enlightening.
Being someone who got lots of female attention to the extent that I would walk to class with a new girl every day and have girls giggling outside the room I'm in fighting over me whilst they called me a player and were happy to make other girls jealous if they knew it meant they had a chance with me, I have enough experience to know what attention men give and what attention women give.

Below are four ways of attention that men give women, but women don't give


  • Prepositions for sex
  • Catcalling

  • Sexual harassment
  • Staring at sexual regions


All four things, women don't like.
Let's be honest here. Men would not mind prepositions for sex, as this prank video by Whatever shows. Men would not mind catcalling, as they do it themselves and they tell women that the attention is good. Men wouldn't mind if women stared at sexual regions, seriously. And men wouldn't mind sexual harassment.



I know a boy who got raped at 9 years old and he wasn't scarred or affected in any way, and I saw a man in a psychiatric ward who was there because his sister used to rape him, and he had no PTSD, shock, crying or any suicidal thoughts.

Men are not affected by rape in the same way women are, and men would not mind the attention that women get. To go from the gender that always faces rejection and a lack of sexual interest, to the gender with an ever-increasing pool of suitors and constant offers for sex, it would be very liberating.

I think that the person who made this cartoon does not spend much time around women and gets most of their ideas of women from the internet.
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