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You have no understanding of the opposite sex or any game at all. You really need to learn to understand girls.

And even boys came around telling me several times. That they've asked her out or something like that and that she had told them that she's not going out with them because I'm the one she really likes.

Me: "I've gotten these anonymous calls the whole time we shared text messages. They began when I first texted you and ended with my last text to you. No circumstances in which this could have been you?"
Her: "Yes. It's not me."

Me: "I really don't like you anymore from now on either. Please erase my number which has been saved uselessly and I really hope that you'll never contact me again for the rest of my life."

But the weird thing is that the next day, she added me on her whatsapp persons directory.

There's nothing wrong with this girl. The problem is that you are not being assertive and proactive. If you really like this girl for 14 years, do something about it. You never chatted her up in school, and now all you do is text now she's no longer in your life. You only text her because you miss her so you now want her in your life, but you have no idea how to keep her in your life, how to be an interesting male, or how to build a relationship with someone who REJECTS OTHER GUYS FOR YOU you who was in your SAME EXACT school.

You have to come off better than that. Be masculine, be domineering, be assertive, be interesting, be a clown. Text her like you mean it. Stop letting your shy and frail emotions control your life. She wants you to come off better than that. She wants you to be a masculine and fascinating person, not someone who asks her how her day is being nice worshipping the ground she walks on. She doesn't need a third parent. Be special. Attraction never fades, whether that be 5 months or 5 years. The only faded one is you. She waited for your call and you never picked up. So move into the deep end.

I fell in love with a girl on Facebook who lived in another country, who calls me sweet, which is girl code way of saying I'm just a friend (without explicitly saying that she knows I like her), but she asks me how I am and how I feel, so she values and respects me. I must have indicated that I like this person without explicitly saying so. How are you indicating that you like this woman, apart from trying to get back in your life? Learn some effective communication. In my defence, she told me that she wishes I was with her in person so we could work together on stuff. What are you doing to make her wish she could visit you?