What should I do when my girlfriend says I am dating up because of my race? How do I initiate breaking up with her?

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I have been dating this undergraduate girl from my university. She is white and I am from a reputedly undesirable race. During a recent party thrown by her sorority, everyone was supposed to invite their friends. Since a lot of my friends are Indian I invited around 2-3 of my close friends who are Indian and 2-3 American guys. She wanted me to not invite the Indian guys and went forth and said, "don't you think you are lucky to date someone like me. Do you see white girls dating Indians ever?" or something along those lines.

I was really hurt by this, but hadn't realized it then and didn't respond well. Now I can't get over this. I haven't dated a white girl before.

I am not that bad, I am well read, traveled, have a bunch of hobbies and am fairly smart to put up with this. I have a job and will be moving out of town soon.

How do I proceed? My past girlfriend was Asian and we broke up in a nice way. I love her but, I think I will have to break up... not sure how to initiate it.

Edit: I live in the U.S, if that matters.

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Although her comment is racist, she was stating a truth. OKCupid analysed the data of millions of people, and found that white women have a preference for white men, and that white people are the most desirable race.

Don't listen to the Cultural Marxists saying that all races are equal and that you should dump her. In fact it's the opposite. The true enemies are the ones who deny that race exists, who believe that all races are regarded equally attractive in society. In fact it's the opposite. You should feel privileged to be dating her.

Somehow a woman who refuses to date coloureds or someone who wants white children gets no flak from people, but the minute someone does date them and says something racist, it's game over.

http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/page/16/